Deciding or not yet decided?

Well, recently came across this term "decidophobia" though the understanding is not new for me. A normal chaos that happens every day of our life or rather every time we sit and think on something. Right from the time what to have in breakfast, lunch or dinner to simple things of choosing or picking vegetables from the local mandi. Even going to the restaurant and scrolling by far to the menu cards and then yet on the point of what to eat. Not to forget we just went out last evening for some random walks and both of us thinking where to stop for a quick bite. Definitely this is not a fear kind of job but then you certainly are not sure where to belong your ideas and put them through. I have made myself look it a direction to deal with it rather than making any further anxiety or panic attacks.

To record this, you need to scale your issues on a certain radar. Are we anxiety enough on something, is something really hurting us deep down our thoughts? Have we made something vulnerable without understanding the crux of the long-lasting effects? Are we in some zone where it is difficult to pounce back to a point which though not yielding much but would have been more relaxing mentally! Well, you can shoot many stars under this bracket, yet something that will give you more satisfaction is certainly the edge of the material of understanding such points, rather than just hooking for more. 

Sometimes we are carried away with the decisions rest of the world has taken in terms of anything and everything surrounding us. Be it taking a particular stream just because you get a high yielding job package without taking into consideration if you were really invested or interested in it. Even the choice of playing a musical instrument, never to forget the choice of sports. Next you moved into a profession because that was giving a better score in comparison to those marginalized sections of jobs, we all saw during our high school days. Moving next, the aim to settle in a place as opportunities were more, not verified but thought so. Further down planning a baby because everyone has by now. Condemning your efforts because whatever you do you are decided or categorized. 

Well friends the decision-making power will never stop you or your life but making a roadmap to just decide your food menu or a dress for the evening get together is definitely not that worth every time. You can remain causal; life does not shut there only. A little step a little moment is more winning than a pensive mood. Though there will be talks, don't stop for little wins of the life, plan big decide big but are we really wanting everything getting flagged that big always. If that is so why do we get nostalgic on that lemonade we tasted many years back on our local playground. Remember?